Couples Therapy Services

Long Island, NY | In-Person and Virtual Therapy

When your relationship feels like it’s slipping through your fingers, we help you hold on

You’ve been trying, talking, arguing, and avoiding, but nothing seems to break the cycle. The same disconnect. The same distance. The same silence. And now, you’re tired. Hurt. Wondering if you’ve lost each other for good.

If you feel unheard, emotionally distant, or overwhelmed by unresolved conflict, you’re not alone. Most couples don’t come to therapy because they’ve failed. They come because they’re ready for something to change.

At Heart in Mind Psychotherapy, we help couples on Long Island, NY, reconnect. Our approach combines compassion, clarity, and practical tools that last, guiding partners back to one another with understanding and support.

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Why relationship support matters

Even the strongest relationships can be impacted by the invisible weight of stress, transitions, and emotional wounds. When those pressures go unspoken or unresolved, they often show up as emotional disconnection, quiet resentment, or tension that’s hard to name.

Through relationship counseling, we help couples recognize that what they’re experiencing isn’t a personal failure, it’s a natural response to disconnection, fear, or unmet needs.

This support is especially valuable when you’re navigating:

  • Major life changes (parenting, career shifts, caregiving)
  • Lingering hurt from past arguments or betrayals
  • Unspoken doubts, comparisons, or unmet expectations
  • Persistent tension or relationship anxiety about the future

You don’t need to wait until things fall apart to seek support. Often, the earlier you reach out, the more there is to build on.

Common relationship challenges we help with

Every couple struggles—what matters is how you work through it together. In our couples therapy, we help couples identify and shift the patterns that keep them stuck in pain, silence, or distance.

Here are some of the most common issues we help couples navigate:

Disconnection related to ineffective conflict resolution

  • Recurring fights that never truly resolve
  • Avoiding difficult conversations out of fear or fatigue
  • Feeling emotionally neglected, dismissed, or unheard
  • Growing apart, losing that sense of closeness or fun
  • Lack of affection or intimacy that once felt natural
  • Unresolved conflict around parenting, priorities, or past hurt
  • Breaches of trust, whether from dishonesty, secrecy, or infidelity
  • Power struggles and the exhaustion of never being on the same page
  • Disconnection related to ineffective conflict resolution

How we can help couples

At Heart in Mind, we don’t just guide you through talking, we help you truly understand one another again. Our approach to Couples Therapy blends insight with action, emotion with strategy, and warmth with clear boundaries.

In our work together, you can expect:

  • A safe space where both partners are heard, respected, and engaged
  • Direct but compassionate feedback to help shift destructive patterns
  • Support in re-establishing emotional closeness through intimacy counseling
  • Tools to rebuild your relationship with more honesty, collaboration, and calm
  • Room for laughter, grief, growth, and real repair—not just surface fixes
A safe space where both partners are heard, respected, and engaged
Direct but compassionate feedback to help shift destructive patterns
Support in re-establishing emotional closeness through intimacy counseling
Tools to rebuild your relationship with more honesty, collaboration, and calm
Room for laughter, grief, growth, and real repair—not just surface fixes

Whether your relationship is in crisis or simply off course, we’re here to help you find a new way forward, together.

Our approach to Couples Therapy

At Heart in Mind Psychotherapy, we specialize in helping partners navigate the complex terrain of relationships with warmth, skill, and compassion on Long Island, New York.

We use proven modalities like the Gottman Method, Relational Life Therapy, and attachment-based therapy, offering a balanced and emotionally grounded approach to therapy for you and your partner.

Both of you are supported in showing up fully. You’ll experience a collaborative process that invites honesty, healing, and movement at a pace that feels right for you.

Whether you’re feeling stuck, unsure, or simply ready to grow together, therapy for couples at Heart in Mind is designed to support your relationship from the inside out. We offer in-person counselling on Long Island or virtual couples therapy in New York for your convenience.

FAQs about Couples Therapy


Let us meet you where you are

No pressure. No commitment. We are here to meet you exactly where you are, whether you’re ready to start therapy or have questions. We offer in-person and virtual therapy on Long Island and in the state of New York.